The Netherlands is a country that has something truly unique. Seemingly organized like a Swiss watch, yet at the same time totally laid-back. I’ve been working with the Dutch for years, I’ve visited, talked, and observed — and one thing I know for sure: the Dutch are in a league of their own when it comes to their approach to life. And seriously, there’s a lot we can learn from them.
Let’s start with the bicycle. It’s not just a means of transport — it’s a religion. Do you see someone in a suit, with a briefcase, rushing in the rain with one hand on the handlebars and the other holding an umbrella? Welcome to the Netherlands. A woman in high heels on a bike? Totally normal. Is it raining? No problem. After all, it’s just rain. The Dutch don’t dramatize. They will get there. Punctually. With a smile.
Then there’s their legendary ‘toch?’ — a question-not-question that really means: am I right? They usually say it with such confidence that you start wondering whether you might actually agree with them after all. This national level of assertiveness may feel a bit shocking at first, but over time… you admire it. And maybe even envy it a little. Because who among us wouldn’t want to be able to speak directly, but without tension.?
The Dutch also have a talent for being light showmen — they can shine with a joke, say something with irony, and not take themselves too seriously. And that’s wonderful.They’re not ashamed of mistakes. They laugh at themselves.
And if you think the Dutch are only about structure and practicality — get to know the word „gezellig”. It’s not just an atmosphere. It’s a state of mind. It’s an evening with friends, warm light, good conversation, and peace. And if you add something lekker, which means tasty, nice, pleasant (seriously, this word can mean everything) — then you have the recipe for a perfect evening.
Here, simple things are celebrated. No stress, no pretending. And that’s beautiful.
For us, Poles, it’s sometimes a cultural shock. We tend to experience everything more deeply, more intensely, sometimes with unnecessary stress. And them? They take life lightly. And that’s exactly why I love them.
Because in their ‘everything will be fine,’ there really is something. And maybe that’s exactly why it’s worth learning from the Dutch to:
a bit of ease, a bit of distance, a bit of... gezellig.
Toch?
